What is needed to maintain the relationship

13 Oct 2025

Communication

You’ve definitely heard the very cliché “communication is key.” But here’s the thing – it’s a cliché for a reason. Good communication is one of the most important aspects of having a healthy relationship. When starting a new relationship, it’s important to be able to talk about what you both want and expect. Sometimes this means being honest and having uncomfortable conversations, but if you’re in a healthy relationship your partner will be receptive and listen (and you should do the same). Being on the same page as your partner goes a long way and opening up to your partner about what’s bothering you, compromising over your disagreements, and complimenting each other are all equally as important.

While communication is important, you should both be comfortable with how often you talk to one another. If your partner needs you to always answer right away and text them all day long, and you don’t want that, that’s not healthy. On the flip side, if your partner is always ignoring your texts and it doesn’t make you feel good, then that’s not healthy either. Finding a communication balance that you’re both comfortable with is super important.

Respect

Listening to your partner (like actually listening, not just waiting to speak) and trying to understand their perspective is a key way to show respect in your relationship. Even if you disagree on the next POTUS or if you’re Team Kimye and they’re Team Taylor, respect your partner’s choices and opinions. Don’t try to persuade them to change their mind about things that are important to them, like going abroad for a semester or where they want to live post-graduation. In a healthy relationship, both partners will have mutual respect for one another. Just because you don’t always see eye to eye, it doesn’t mean that one person needs to change their mind in order for your relationship to work. Another key way to establish respect in a relationship is to be considerate of your partner’s privacy and boundaries. You are not entitled to know everything that your partner does and everyone with who they interact

It also means being mindful of your partner’s feelings and not doing things that might really hurt them, like keeping things that are supposed to be private just between you two. Having a healthy relationship isn’t defined by knowing each other’s passcodes and getting the heart emoji next to their name in Snapchat. While it’s cool if you share those things, healthy relationships require some space and a filter!.

Boundaries

We all have personal boundaries on what makes us feel good, comfortable, safe, etc. In a healthy relationship, you should feel 100% comfortable communicating those boundaries and know that they will be respected (and vice versa for your partner). If you only want to hang out 3 times a week – that’s fine; if you want to wait before getting intimate – totally cool; if you want to keep your Monday Funday night with the baffles – do it! Remember that you shouldn’t feel nervous or scared to set personal boundaries in any relationship. And if you feel like your partner or friend is using boundaries to control you, like telling you not to hang out with friends or requiring you to share passwords, it’s time to rethink the relationship!

Trust

This is a big one. All healthy relationships require mutual and unguarded trust between partners. Regardless of what either partner has experienced in the past, like a cheating ex or a parent’s divorce, in a healthy relationship your partner will trust you completely. DO remember that it takes time to build trust in a relationship (it usually doesn’t come right off the bat!) and that when your partner fully trusts you with their feelings, you should respect them and not betray their trust. Cheating on them or doing things to make them jealous isn’t right. On the flip side, if you don’t trust your partner then you shouldn’t be with them.

DON’T ever let your partner use their lack of trust or past experiences as an excuse to control you, question you, or otherwise make you feel as though you need to go out of your to way earn their trust. Steadfast affection, support, respect, and communication will naturally strengthen the trust in your relationship.

Support

One of the best things about being in a healthy relationship is having a supportive partner who you know has your back. Whether it’s sticking up for you when someone says something mean about you, or always being that rock you can rely on, in a healthy relationship you and your partner will support each other and treat each other as equals. Your partner won’t use tactics to manipulate you, control you or put you down. They will be protective of you, but not overly possessive. They will encourage you to spend time with friends and family, work toward your personal goals and have a life outside of your relationship. Supportive partners will always want what’s best for you, and they won’t hold you back from achieving your dreams. In a healthy relationship, you’ll feel like yourself and not like you have to change things or make huge sacrifices so that the relationship can thrive.

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Creating a Lifestyle: Using Handmade Delights to Weave Family Bonds

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Building a healthy relationship

All romantic relationships go through ups and downs and they all take work, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and change with your partner. But whether your relationship is just starting out or you’ve been together for years, there are steps you can take to build a healthy relationship. Even if you’ve experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past or have struggled before to rekindle the fires of romance in your current relationship, you can find ways to stay connected, find fulfillment, and enjoy lasting happiness.

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Creating a Well-Equipped Life: Fostering Family ties in the Contemporary Era

1. Time Well Spent: Exceeding Busy Schedules: It can be difficult to discover true moments of connection with family members in the busyness of everyday life. But setting aside time for quality is essential to creating enduring relationships. These deliberate moments, whether they are over a meal, a weekend trip, or just a game night, build a foundation of cherished memories and a sense of belonging that endures.

29 Nov 2025

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why your friends are your family

Actually, get on

Unlike family gatherings, you are totally confident in knowing that a gathering with friends will not lead to a row over a game of Monopoly, which results in someone tipping over the board.

You actually get on a lot, have a ton of things in common and any time spent together is full of laughter.

Always together

You’re almost joined at the hip because that is how much time you spend together.

Whether it is going to the gym, watching a new boxset, doing a bit of shopping, you always have a friend tagging along. You can happily spend a whole month together and not get bored.

20 Oct 2025

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Budget Skincare Routine Under ₹500: Achieving Healthy Skin Without Breaking the Bank

Description: Build an effective skincare routine for under ₹500 monthly. Learn which budget products actually work, what to skip, and how to achieve healthy, glowing skin affordably.

I spent ₹4,200 monthly on skincare products before discovering that a ₹480 routine gave me better results—and taught me that expensive doesn't mean effective.

It was 2018. I'd started earning well and fell into the trap of luxury skincare marketing. Every beauty influencer and magazine told me: "You get what you pay for. Invest in your skin. Premium products are worth it."

So I bought everything expensive:

₹1,800 luxury cleanser
₹2,400 imported serum promising "miracles"
₹1,600 designer brand moisturizer
₹900 fancy toner
Additional ₹2,500 on weekly masks and treatments

Monthly total: ₹9,200 on face products alone (and that's being conservative—some months exceeded ₹12,000).

My skin looked... fine. Not amazing. Not glowing. Just okay. Certainly not ₹9,200-per-month worth of results.

Then I lost my job unexpectedly. Suddenly, ₹9,200 monthly on skincare was impossible. I needed to cut expenses dramatically while still taking care of my skin.

I was terrified my skin would deteriorate without luxury products.

Out of necessity, I researched budget alternatives. I learned about ingredient lists, active ingredients, and which products actually matter. I discovered dermatologists overwhelmingly recommend affordable drugstore brands—not luxury products.

I rebuilt my entire routine with budget products totaling ₹480 monthly (₹2,880 for 6-month supply of core products).

The shocking result: My skin looked better.

Not slightly better. Noticeably, significantly better:

Clearer complexion (fewer breakouts)
More even tone (hyperpigmentation fading)
Smoother texture (no rough patches)
Better hydration (no dry tightness)
Natural glow (people commented on it)

How was this possible? The budget products had:

Higher concentrations of active ingredients (not paying for packaging and marketing)
Simpler formulations (fewer irritating fragrances and fillers)
Science-backed ingredients (not proprietary "miracle complexes")
Dermatologist recommendations (based on evidence, not advertising budgets)

The transformation wasn't from discovering magical cheap products—it was from learning which ingredients actually work and finding affordable products containing them.

I'd been paying for:

Luxury packaging
Celebrity endorsements
Marketing campaigns
Brand prestige
Fancy retail locations

I hadn't been paying for better skincare.

Today, I'm sharing the complete budget skincare routine under ₹500 monthly—not compromises or "good enough for the price," but genuinely effective products that work as well as (sometimes better than) luxury alternatives.

Because here's the uncomfortable truth: the skincare industry profits from convincing you that expensive equals effective. But ingredients don't care about price tags, and science doesn't favor luxury brands. Your skin responds to what works, not what costs more.

Let's build affordable, effective skincare.

Understanding Budget Skincare: Setting Realistic Expectations

Before diving into products, let's establish what budget skincare can and cannot do.

What Budget Skincare CAN Achieve

With the right products:

Clean, healthy skin (remove dirt, oil, makeup)
Proper hydration (moisturized, supple skin)
Sun protection (prevent 90% of aging)
Improved texture and tone (gentle exfoliation, brightening)
Reduced acne (salicylic acid, benzoyl peroxide)
Anti-aging results (retinoids, vitamin C)
Barrier repair (ceramides, niacinamide)

The evidence: Dermatologists consistently achieve excellent results with affordable products because they focus on proven active ingredients, not brand names.

What Budget Skincare CANNOT Do

Realistic limitations:

Won't work overnight (skincare takes 4-12 weeks regardless of price)
Won't erase deep wrinkles (that requires procedures)
Won't change skin type permanently (genetics determine this)
Won't fix internal health issues (nutrition, sleep, stress matter enormously)

The key insight: Expensive products have the same limitations. Skincare—at any price—works gradually through consistent use of effective ingredients.

The 3-Product Essential Foundation

Every effective routine needs just three categories:

Cleanser (remove dirt, oil, makeup)
Moisturizer (hydrate, protect barrier)
Sunscreen (prevent sun damage and aging)

That's it. Everything else is supplementary.

Start here. Perfect these three before adding anything else.

The Complete Budget Skincare Routine (Under ₹500 Monthly)

Let's build the routine step-by-step.

Morning Routine

Step 1: Cleanser

Product: Simple Refreshing Facial Wash Gel

Price: ₹210 for 150ml
Lasts: 2-3 months (using 1-2 pumps)
Monthly cost: ₹70-105
Why it works: Gentle surfactants clean without stripping, no harsh chemicals, no fragrance, suitable for all skin types including sensitive
Active ingredients: Gentle cleansing agents, glycerin (moisturizing), vitamin E

Alternative: Cetaphil Gentle Skin Cleanser

Price: ₹380 for 250ml
Lasts: 3-4 months
Monthly cost: ₹95-125
Why it works: Dermatologist-recommended for decades, ultra-gentle, suitable for sensitive skin, non-foaming (very mild)

How to use:

Wet face with lukewarm water
Take small amount (pea-sized or 1-2 pumps)
Massage gently for 30-60 seconds
Rinse thoroughly
Pat dry with clean towel

Common mistake: Using too much cleanser (wastes product, can irritate)

Step 2: Moisturizer

Product: Nivea Soft Light Moisturizer

Price: ₹130 for 50ml
Lasts: 1.5-2 months (face only)
Monthly cost: ₹65-85
Why it works: Light texture (perfect for morning under makeup), jojoba oil and vitamin E (nourishing), absorbs quickly, non-greasy
Best for: Oily, combination skin; humid climates; under makeup

Alternative: Ponds Super Light Gel

Price: ₹165 for 50g
Lasts: 1.5-2 months
Monthly cost: ₹80-110
Why it works: Hyaluronic acid (hydration), vitamin E, oil-free, lightweight gel formula
Best for: Oily skin, summer, those who dislike heavy creams

For Dry Skin: Nivea Nourishing Body Lotion (for face)

Price: ₹150 for 200ml
Lasts: 4-5 months (face only)
Monthly cost: ₹30-40
Why it works: Richer formula, almond oil (nourishing), vitamin E, deeply moisturizing
Secret: Body lotions often have identical ingredients to face moisturizers at fraction of price (avoid if acne-prone)

How to use:

After cleansing, while face still slightly damp
Take pea-sized amount
Dot on forehead, cheeks, chin, nose
Massage upward and outward gently
Extend to neck

Step 3: Sunscreen (THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP)

Product: Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry-Touch Sunscreen SPF 50+

Price: ₹549 for 88ml
Lasts: 2-3 months (liberal face use)
Monthly cost: ₹180-275
Why it works: Broad spectrum (UVA + UVB), SPF 50+, Helioplex technology, non-greasy, water-resistant
Worth the splurge: Sunscreen prevents 90% of visible aging—this is where to allocate budget

Budget Alternative: Minimalist Sunscreen SPF 50 PA++++

Price: ₹449 for 50ml
Lasts: 1.5-2 months
Monthly cost: ₹225-300
Why it works: Broad spectrum, fragrance-free, Indian brand with transparency, affordable

How to use:

Apply as last step (after moisturizer)
Use ½ teaspoon amount for face (two-finger length)
Apply 15-20 minutes before sun exposure
Reapply every 2-3 hours if outdoors
Don't skip: This is the single most important anti-aging product

Morning Routine Total:

Cleanser: ₹70-105
Moisturizer: ₹65-110
Sunscreen: ₹180-275 Monthly total: ₹315-490

Evening Routine

Step 1: Cleanser (Same as Morning)

Same product, same technique
Remove sunscreen, dirt, oil accumulated during day

Step 2: Treatment (Optional but Valuable—Budget Allows)

Option A: Adapalene Gel 0.1% (Deriva MS / Adaferin)

Price: ₹250-300 for 15g tube
Lasts: 3-4 months (pea-sized every other night)
Monthly cost: ₹65-100
Why it works: Retinoid (prescription-strength in India, OTC in many countries), proven anti-aging and acne treatment, increases cell turnover, reduces fine lines, unclogs pores
Active ingredient: Adapalene (retinoid)
Best for: Anti-aging, acne, skin texture, hyperpigmentation

How to use:

Start 2-3x weekly (Monday, Wednesday, Friday)
After cleansing, wait 20 minutes (dry skin completely)
Apply pea-sized amount to entire face (not just spots)
Avoid eye area
Build to daily use over 6-8 weeks
Must use sunscreen (retinoids increase sun sensitivity)
Side effects: Initial dryness, peeling, redness (normal—means it's working, reduces after 4-6 weeks)

Option B: The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%

Price: ₹650 for 30ml
Lasts: 3-4 months
Monthly cost: ₹160-215
Why it works: Niacinamide brightens, reduces pores, regulates oil, strengthens barrier; Zinc calms inflammation
Best for: Oily skin, large pores, hyperpigmentation, dullness

How to use:

After cleansing
Apply 2-3 drops to face
Morning and/or evening
Follow with moisturizer

Budget constraint: If ₹500 limit strict, skip treatment initially. Perfect the basic three (cleanser, moisturizer, sunscreen) for 2-3 months, then add treatment once budget allows or when products purchased last longer.

Step 3: Moisturizer

Product: Nivea Soft (same as morning) OR upgrade to richer option

Evening Moisturizer Option: Vaseline Petroleum Jelly

Price: ₹85 for 100ml
Lasts: 6-8 months (thin layer on face)
Monthly cost: ₹10-15
Why it works: Occlusive (seals moisture), prevents water loss overnight, simple formula (no irritants), dermatologist-recommended
How to use: As final step (after regular moisturizer if skin very dry, or alone if oily skin), thin layer, locks everything in
Benefit: Incredibly cheap, highly effective, lasts forever

Alternative: Cetaphil Moisturizing Cream

Price: ₹450 for 250g
Lasts: 4-5 months (face only)
Monthly cost: ₹90-110
Why it works: Rich formula, repairs skin barrier, suitable for very dry or sensitive skin

Evening Routine Total:

Cleanser: ₹70-105 (same as morning, already counted)
Treatment: ₹65-215 (optional)
Moisturizer: ₹10-110 Additional monthly cost: ₹75-325 (beyond morning routine)

Combined Total (Morning + Evening):

Without treatment: ₹400-600 (over budget by ₹100 in higher range, but products last varying lengths—balances out)
With treatment: ₹500-750 (over ₹500 but achievable with smart shopping—explained below)

26 Dec 2025

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